Life is not a flow chart. We weren't meant to master it on our own. We weren't meant to be mastered by it either. The discussion guides in the Transformation of a Man's Heart series put us in conversation with God and with one another to see how God shapes and transforms us in the ordinary experiences of our lives. Sometimes we're tempted to look at marriage like flies on a windowpane. The ones on the outside want to get in, but do the ones on the inside want to get out? This discussion guide, inspired by essays in The Transformation of a Man's Heart, demystifies marriage for men, helping us see through the euphoria that led us to marry and the disillusionment that plagues us when our marriages don't turn out as we planned. This study accompanies the companion book, The Transformation of a Man's Heart, compiled and edited by Stephen W. Smith.